Mentoring: Relationship assignment(1)

Hey Guys
Can we discuss these questions next time. As usual as frankly as possible. They are the posers I put up for real men.

Always better with one wife(woman) and One husband(man)
Always better not to be divorced
It is sometimes better to divorce or separate
It is sometimes better to have a partner outside the marriage
It is justified to have a partner if the spouse in house is unbearable
Always better to avoid domestic violence
There are some spouses that they understand only correction through domestic violence

The man is always responsible for the state of the home
The woman is always responsible for the state of the home
They are both responsible equally
They are responsible 60 to the man and 40 to the woman vice versa
Always better to be married
Always better to be married with kids
Always better not to have girlfriends
Always better to have wife as confidants
Always better for man to look after wife and children
Always better to resist outside influence on your marriage
Always better in marriage for couple to have unrestrained sexual relationship...no headache or other spurious excuses
Always better for the man to go out with wife and children regularly
Always better for the man to stay at home after work including on Fridays
Always better for the wife to be a good cook
Always better for the wife to keep to the original size(u know what I mean) or at least show evidence of wanting to keep to the original size
Always better to have joint account, each spouse can then have separate accounts
Always better to invest together
Always better for the woman and the man in marriage to be trendy
Always better for the wife to stop nagging
Always better for the couple to share a kiss first thing in morning and last thing at night
Always better for couples to talk and listen to each other
Always better for couples to disagree to agree
Always better for couples to resolve disagreement before they sleep at night
Always better for the couple to accept 'sorry' after a misbehaviour, and let it end there
Always better for the man to love and the woman to submit unconditionally
Always better for the man to say I love you regularly, and the woman to say I love you regularly.
Always better for couples to share one faith and prayer in that faith together and if both are people without faith to comply with moral laws
Like wine, marriage vintages with time
There are some marriages that are not made in heaven
There are some marriages that are bound to fail
Tayo Arowojolu

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